In this episode, I share powerful insights on setting healthy boundaries in relationships, based on my personal journey with my husband. I break down the seven types of boundaries and provides practical tips for effectively communicating and asserting your needs. Plus, I offer invaluable techniques for grounding yourself during challenging conversations. Whether it's physical, emotional, or time boundaries, my advice is meant to empower you to navigate relationships with confidence and respect. Join the conversation and embrace your imperfections with me!
Introduction to Boundaries
- Definition of boundaries
- Importance of establishing boundaries during the holiday season
- Personal experience with setting boundaries in a relationship
- Different communication styles and boundary needs in a relationship
Types of Boundaries
- Physical boundaries (e.g. hugging)
- Property boundaries (e.g. personal belongings)
- Emotional boundaries (e.g. dealing with someone's bad day)
- Intellectual boundaries (e.g. being talked down to)
- Spiritual boundaries (e.g. being forced to pray)
- Time boundaries (e.g. showing up early or late for events)
- Sexual boundaries
Types of Boundary Violations
- External boundary violations (e.g. physical and sexual abuse, cutting in line)
- Internal boundary violations (e.g. gossiping, sharing secrets, assuming thoughts of others)
Establishing and Navigating Boundaries
- Setting rigid, permeable, and flexible boundaries
- Practicing setting boundaries with trusted individuals
- Scheduling conversations to address boundary issues
- Grounding techniques for anxiety and discomfort when setting boundaries
- Having tough conversations and resolving conflicts through setting boundaries
Conclusion and Encouragement
- Encouragement to have difficult conversations and set boundaries
- Reminder of the importance of seeking professional help if needed
- Invitation for audience interaction and feedback
- Affirmation of personal growth and embracing imperfections
- Information regarding podcast and healthcare professional involvement
00:00 Different conflict resolution styles: quick vs. gradual.
03:30 Effective communication and respect take time.
08:28 Set boundaries, external and internal violations explained.
11:53 Schedule time for calm, prepared boundary conversations.
13:06 Use 54321 technique for anxiety. Have tough conversations.
Connect with Jen:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jen.lander/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jennifer.butram/
resources:
Landing Imperfect Website: https://landingimperfect.godaddysites.com/
Book: Unf*ck Your Boundaries by Faith Harper https://a.co/d/eUW52un
In this episode, I share powerful insights on setting healthy boundaries in relationships, based on my personal journey with my husband. I break down the seven types of boundaries and provides practical tips for effectively communicating and asserting your needs. Plus, I offer invaluable techniques for grounding yourself during challenging conversations. Whether it's physical, emotional, or time boundaries, my advice is meant to empower you to navigate relationships with confidence and respect. Join the conversation and embrace your imperfections with me!
Introduction to Boundaries
- Definition of boundaries
- Importance of establishing boundaries during the holiday season
- Personal experience with setting boundaries in a relationship
- Different communication styles and boundary needs in a relationship
Types of Boundaries
- Physical boundaries (e.g. hugging)
- Property boundaries (e.g. personal belongings)
- Emotional boundaries (e.g. dealing with someone's bad day)
- Intellectual boundaries (e.g. being talked down to)
- Spiritual boundaries (e.g. being forced to pray)
- Time boundaries (e.g. showing up early or late for events)
- Sexual boundaries
Types of Boundary Violations
- External boundary violations (e.g. physical and sexual abuse, cutting in line)
- Internal boundary violations (e.g. gossiping, sharing secrets, assuming thoughts of others)
Establishing and Navigating Boundaries
- Setting rigid, permeable, and flexible boundaries
- Practicing setting boundaries with trusted individuals
- Scheduling conversations to address boundary issues
- Grounding techniques for anxiety and discomfort when setting boundaries
- Having tough conversations and resolving conflicts through setting boundaries
Conclusion and Encouragement
- Encouragement to have difficult conversations and set boundaries
- Reminder of the importance of seeking professional help if needed
- Invitation for audience interaction and feedback
- Affirmation of personal growth and embracing imperfections
- Information regarding podcast and healthcare professional involvement
00:00 Different conflict resolution styles: quick vs. gradual.
03:30 Effective communication and respect take time.
08:28 Set boundaries, external and internal violations explained.
11:53 Schedule time for calm, prepared boundary conversations.
13:06 Use 54321 technique for anxiety. Have tough conversations.
Connect with Jen:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jen.lander/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jennifer.butram/
resources:
Landing Imperfect Website: https://landingimperfect.godaddysites.com/
Book: Unf*ck Your Boundaries by Faith Harper https://a.co/d/eUW52un